MUST-HAVE RESOURCE FOR WOMEN WHO REFUSE TO LET DIVORCE DEFINE THEM
The Ultimate Faith-Based Guide for Mindset Renewal After Divorce.
I know I am no longer married - but when will I feel whole again?
Do any of the following resonate with you?
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SHAME THAT CONSUMES EVERY THOUGHT
You replay "what-ifs" and feel crippled by shame. The gossiping has not stopped and there are so many lies. You are hurting and secretly long to forgive yourself and those who have hurt you most.
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IDENTITY LOST IN THE DIVORCE
You once defined yourself as "wife" and poured so much into your home - now you're not sure who you are without that title. There is so much change and uncertainty which has led to a loss of identity and feelings of failure.
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STUCK IN A LOOP OF REGRET AND BITTERNESS
You feel damaged, used, and disappointed. You can't help but think about how much time you have lost. The past keeps pulling you backward, making it impossible to embrace the future God has for you.
...If that's you, then keep reading, because I can help you.
It still hurts...
Divorce didn’t just break your heart.
It shook your identity.
You thought your story would look different - that you would get your happily ever after. Now you’re left carrying shame, disappointment, and the quiet fear that maybe God can’t use someone who’s divorced.
Whether your marriage ended yesterday or years ago, you may be asking:
- “Why didn’t God stop it?”
- “Can He still use me?”
- “Will I ever feel whole again?”
If that’s you, I want you to know:
You are not disqualified, you are not forgotten, and you are not alone.
You are deeply loved by the God who restores
I WANT TO BE RESTORED
Introducing: Divorced, Not Damaged
This isn’t just a devotional—it’s the exact mindset shifts I made, with God, to stop spiraling in shame and start walking toward wholeness.
Inside this trauma-informed, Spirit-led guidebook, I share the 5 biblical truths that helped me:
- Break free from false guilt
- Rebuild my identity in Christ
- Heal my relationship with God
- Let go of bitterness without faking forgiveness
- Believe that joy is still possible—even now
You won’t find clichés or quick fixes here. Just raw honesty, Scripture-rooted guidance, and hope you can actually hold onto.
This guide helps women who feel broken, ashamed, or forgotten after divorce to renew their minds, reconnect with God, and rediscover their worth and identity, without guilt, fear, or regret.
It’s time to heal from the inside out—spirit, soul, and body.
Transformation (Before & After)
Before this guidebook, you might feel…
• Like your value took a hit with your marriage
• Unsure how to trust God again
• Emotionally exhausted but afraid to stop “being strong”
After this guidebook, you’ll be able to…
- Begin forgiving without pretending it didn't hurt.
- See yourself through God’s eyes again.
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Feel spiritually seen, safe, and supported on your next step forward.
But don't just take my word for it....
Ashley J.
Connecting with Monica through Divorced From Damage was truly life-changing for me. Her transparency, wisdom, and the way she speaks directly to the heart helped me feel seen in a season where I felt invisible. Through her support and the resources she shared, I began to rediscover my worth and take real steps toward healing. Today, I no longer carry shame—I carry strength. I’m still on the journey, but I’m walking in freedom I never thought was possible.
Isoken I.
Monica was open and transparent with me about her experience. I truly appreciate this about her. The Lord used her to save me from making so many mistakes in my vulnerable and fragile state. She was instrumental in my healing journey, she helped me to make sense of so many things. With her I never felt alone. I was a victim of domestic violence, navigating divorce, moving home and broken in so many ways. Im now a healed woman, happily married with beautiful children.
How do I know if I'm ready?
Perfect for you if:
- You believe in God and want to truly heal, not just survive.
- You are weighed down by shame, fear, or gossip, and in need loving support / community.
- You are ready to walk from pain to purpose with unwavering faith.
- You are longing for peace and stability as you navigate coparenting and starting over.
Not for you if:
- You're seeking a legal or financial solution (this is soul healing, not divorce law).
- You are unwilling to receive spiritual guidance, coaching,= or community support.
- You are expecting a quick fix without any real personal or spiritual work.
- You are satisfied with anger, blame, or staying stuck in old patterns.
A Note From Me...
It’s an honor to have you here. I’ve walked this path myself. After my own divorce, I felt broken and ashamed, wondering if I’d ever feel whole again. Through God’s grace and years of learning, I found real healing and liberty in Jesus. Now I’ve dedicated my life to helping others do the same.
This work is holy and sacred to God, so I am committed to standing with you through every step and shift. My guidance is always grounded in Scripture because I’ve seen how God’s Word brings life back into shattered hearts. I have coached hundreds of women through similar pain, and I know the five mindset shifts in this guide really work. Your future is bright, and God has beautiful plans for you. Let’s walk this road together. You are worth it, and you are dearly loved.
Mon E x
Commonly Asked Questions
DO I NEED TO BE FULLY READY TO HEAL?
IS THIS A BIBLE STUDY?
IS THIS ONLY FOR WOMEN WHO ARE RECENTLY DIVORCED?
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